As promised here is the next installment of the KY HOBY blog. I hope after reading my first blog you have a better idea of the HOBY program and the angle I am coming from. I received some feed back on my email, not with answers to the quotes/question of the week but more so for anticipation of this weeks main focus. Last week I promised to tie Duran Duran’s famous song “Hungry Like A Wolf” to everyday life.
So without further delay here is the much-anticipated “Kyle Hill’s Six Degrees of Separation from tacky 80’s songs to leadership studies. “
Before I can even start anything, please first listen to this song right now! Go ahead please take three minutes and twenty-seven seconds to rock out to this tacky, big haired, tight clothes, 80’s masterpiece. Go onto I tunes and pick this one of a kind song dating back to a time when popping your collar was actually cool.
Now that you have listened to the song, I will now try to attempt to tie this song, to your life.
This song is EXTREMELY repetitive, I am actually only going to use one verse in this song to make my point.
“Burning the ground I break from the crowd,
I’m on the hunt I am after you.
I’m lost and I am found, I smell like I sound.
I am Hungry like the wolf.”
The first part of this is extremely easy to analyze. “Burning The Ground I break from the crowd.” If you attended the HOBY program you were selected as the one outstanding individual’s in your school to attend separating you from the rest of your peers. In my honest opinion anybody could become a leader. However, it takes an extremely special breed of person to be a great leader.
The first step to defining your leadership skills is to separate you from the rest of the crowd. This is accomplished in many ways either by taking on a special project, or asking your teacher or boss for more responsibility.
An important side note to separating you is that you still must be accessible to your peers, you do not want to seem arrogant or more important than anyone else. You always have to remember who exactly you are trying to lead and never forgot those people.
The next line in the song is “I’m on the hunt down after you.” Once you have separated yourself from the rest of the crowd you need to set up goals. One of the best ways to effectively set up goals is the letter system. You need to come up with three goals
1. Short Term 1-3 Weeks From Now
2. Medium Term 1-2 Months From Now
3. Long Term 1-2 Years From Now.
You need to be honest with yourself and tackle these three goals with in the time you allotted to complete them. REMEMBER TO BE REALISTIC ABOUT YOUR GOALS! Once you have set up your goals write each one on a separate sheet of paper and seal each separately in an envelope. On the outside of each envelope be sure to write down if the goal is short, medium or long term and the timeline in which it is to be completed.
Then find a folder in your desk or somewhere where you will not lose your goals and be sure to open them on time see if you completed your goals. (Another way to do this is actually mail delay them to yourself when the task is supposed to be completed.)
Completing your personal and professional goals on time is something you have to continue the rest of your life. You are constantly: “On the hunt down after your personal goals.”
The third line in the verse is, “I smell like I sound, I am lost and I am found.” This verse is in respect to your Personal character qualities and appearance. Your personal character qualities will never change the rest of your life. These are the things that people see in you such as: being nice, outspoken, well-mannered, responsible, honest ect.
On the other hand your appearance is constantly changing. From how you dress day to day to how you feel. I am a firm believer that every person has positive character qualities, some people choose to highlight them more than others.
Your appearance is something that only you can change on a regular basis, from how you dress to the emotions you show. If you truly want to become a leader it is important to regulate your appearance. Take care for personal grooming, & dressing appropriately. The visual appearance of person is usually the first impression you give. So be sure you are presenting the correct image. A personal saying of mine is, “Dress for the part you want in life.” I am not saying if you want to be a police officer dress like one. But dress in a mature manner that still expresses yourself but does not detract from your persona as a leader.
The final line in the song is “I am hungry like the wolf. “ This is the core to any person as a leader in society. If you truly want to be a leader or are one, then you are hungry for something in your life. Maybe it is the chance to prove yourself, or to better the situation or people around you. This is something that each person must figure out. I challenge you to try to figure out what you are hungry for in life.
In conclusion, I hope that using this 80’s song as tool for teaching some basic leadership skills has helped you this week. All of these steps combined will help you in the long run.
1.) Separate from the crowd.
2.) Set Up Personal Goals
3.) Known your Personal Character Qualities / Maintain Personal Appearance.
4.) Find what you are hungry for in life, and fill your self with success.
For the upcoming week we will be looking at Facebook and Myspace and how they affect leadership today!
QUOTE OF THE WEEK:
“And I am Hungry Like A Wolf”
–Duran Duran
TASK FOR THE WEEK:
What are you hungry for in life right now? With the presidential elections going on what are you hungry for the new president to do while in office?
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